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Question date: 2020/08/20 23:36

Hello.
Have you ever cried during the activities of the dating club?

As an example, I will share my experience. (female member)

I offered my second virginity at the dating club, but unconsciously (maybe it was a sense of loss), a single tear fell.Even after it ended, I was stunned for a while.

The second time was when I was squeezed by a male member.It was the first time in my life that someone hugged me so tightly.I was so happy that I cried.But the fact that I was married was really painful, so when I got home, I became sad and cried again.

I really had a sweet and salty experience at the dating club.It was hard at the time, but now I am so grateful for them.
I would love to hear from everyone who responded.
Thank you.

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There was a time when I cried a lot from my lively meeting with my dad.

I wrote more about it in this column (https://universe-club.jp/column/watasigaonna).

The daughter is already married and pregnant, and now she is pregnant.

I'm going on a date to eat delicious soba soon.

I have no intention of letting go of my hand from now on.
Even if you say it from the other side, do you feel like "if you can confirm the safety" ^ _ ^;

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 00:07
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Romane

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This is Romanee, a female member.

Only once since I started club activities have I come home in heavy rain crying.And it's fairly recent.

Leaving aside the details, to put it simply, the person I met on the day of the offer was already drunk and out of control when I arrived. (I'm from another dating club)

Even so, the other side is also drunk and oblivious to what's going on, so I've been saying whatever I want... It's fine up to that point, but I don't want you to touch me the most because I'm a human being in that rant. I've been stirring things up with malice for an hour, so my head suddenly turned white and I was walking through the intersection of Roppongi in the downpour.

As long as I'm in a place like this, I'm very aware that there will be things I don't like and that I'll meet some bad people, but at that time, I was able to change from an ordinary girl to a prostitute for a mere tens of thousands of "pieces of paper". I was so foolish, pitiful, shabby, and miserable that I cried with laughter.

But it can't be helped because it's rust from my body~
Whether you cry or scream, in the end, Romane is all about money~ I love it♡
I don't know if it hurts or not, but I still want money, so I'll keep doing my best.
I'm sure I'll have bad feelings all the time, but I wonder if it's good or bad that I've come to enjoy it in its own way.


Also, I don't think I cry for the sake of the people I met at the club.There is no such thing as surrendering to emotions and being upset.I didn't ask Coco to do that in the first place.Fulfill the required "role" for the "compensation".I will never let go.I really appreciate you giving me the money.
If it's for the sake of my favorite "Gigi", I'll rehydrate and cry as many times as I want when my tears dry up.

If only I had the money.If I had even 1% of the money that the boss had when I applied for the interview.
I don't have the right to cry for someone when my motive for registering is 100% money.
Even sluts come this far... you're a poor woman with a poor heart.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 00:57
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Joe Rubicon

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I'm Joe.
Ten years ago, when my mother passed away, I feel like I shed a lifetime's worth of tears.That's why I cry falsely, but my tears don't flow.
First of all, seeing someone crying, regardless of gender, makes Joe laugh, albeit imprudently.He has a big laugh in his stomach.
However, when I walked from Ebisu to Shinagawa this spring, the scenery of the city was hazy.Maybe I was in tears.At least I don't think I was lying.Oh, I just care.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 05:45
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Mamiya (Staff)

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Second virgin?I'm not sure if is important, but
The experience of crying on a date is indeed a mysterious and unforgettable feeling.

I don't have an answer for tears during sex either.

The first time, when I had been rejecting the other person's feelings for a long time, the time had come for me to accept them.

Same person the second time.

And recently, I call myself a therapist, but with a high probability of 5 out of 2 times, I cried during the process.
Perhaps the way the other person moves and the way you speak is similar to the rhythm of crying.
After that, I guess that by connecting with the other party, I was healed and resonated from some past feelings.

I'm not particularly sad or moved, but it's very strange to have a feeling close to that.
I think there are still unexplained experiences.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/25 12:20
Female member

Marika

This is Marika, a female member.

When I was in my 20s, I cried a lot when I was dating a married man in his 40s.

The kindness of such a man is a sin.

Even if I was told not to get serious about it, if I was told to stop, I wouldn't have a hard time.

I am in my 40s and have never cried at clubs.
There have been times when my dad made me cry.
I don't love him so much that I cry, but I treat him with great care in order to reciprocate his love.

This question reminded me of my pure feelings and made me a little sad.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 00:08
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Anonymous

This is Sana, a female member.

I've never cried during club activities, but I do get emotionally shaken by sorrow and loneliness.
When the loneliness at the root is stimulated, it makes me feel sentimental.

The feeling of loneliness and loneliness is not fulfilled by sympathizing with "I understand".
However, there are times when I feel relieved when I think to the person I'm meeting face-to-face, "This person has also been feeling loneliness and loneliness."
I'm thinking, "At least while we're together, it would be nice if we could have a relationship where we can both relax and not feel uneasy."

When I have physical contact with someone I've met a lot, I feel lonely, but I feel like I'm being pushed back that it's okay to be lonely.

In the words of Ogai Mori,
"My feelings are my feelings.
One's thoughts are also one's thoughts.
Even if there is no one in the world who understands this, I must be content with that.
You must be at peace with it. ”
There is.
It's sad.But I can't help it.

Also, Bonobono-kun was introduced in the Cinderella column, so I read it.
I've only read books that are eligible for AmazonKindleUnlimited, but it's sad.
It is also recommended for those who ask questions.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 00:19
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Maezawa (Staff)

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Maezawa from the president's office will also answer.

What is second virgin? ? ?

Come to think of it, around New Year's, I'm still a virgin this year.
In other seasons, this month is a virgin
I wonder how many times

I think

Some women like to be squeezed.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 08:41
Female member

Papua

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It's Papua.

I cry once a month for various reasons, but I don't feel like I'm here.

I never really fell in love with the person I met here (who has a family)...
However, even if such a thing were to happen, I would be very curious about how men would react if they confessed, "I like you."

In other words, the experience of the questioner and the answer of the respondent are the same, but it's like watching an NHK documentary program... It's a tough time, but let's do our best...


> Mac

Fan of question boxes?Oh my surprise.
I always answer while wondering, "Who will read this kind of sentence?"

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 01:24
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Kazu

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This is Kazu, a male member.

No, it was a dark day.What happened is clear in Mr. Mac's answer.
This is what makes club activities so interesting.Thank you, Mac, for your excitement.

I have many things to reflect on in my club activities, but so far I haven't shed tears.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 03:51
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confused 60's

I'm in my 60's and confused.

For those of you who have been reading the question box for a long time, it will be posted again, so I think it will come again...(^◇^;)

On his second date with his B-type girlfriend, he decides to become an adult and comes to stay with her in a hotel room...

I could feel how serious she was about me, so before I went to bed, I said, ``I have to say goodbye at the end of next month. …”

I wonder if I was crying a little too...

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 06:07
Female member

Akari

Female member Rin

At my age, I become more prone to tears, and when I watch sports or watch the news, I cry.
I always cry at my child's events

Just like the person who asked the question, I love being hugged tightly.

In order not to show his busyness, worries, and physical condition to the outside,
When someone hugs me or strokes my head in silence, I feel relieved and sometimes cry.

Even when I'm stuck, I feel really relaxed when someone whispers "I'm fine" while being squeezed.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 09:17
Female member

Anonymous

I'm a single female member.

Originally, I'm the kind of person whose tear glands collapse when I'm hit by pressure points, but otherwise I rarely cry, so in the shadows I'm described as "too bright, like a psychopath".

I'm such a psychopath, but I've cried a few times at a dating club.Of course, I immediately withdrew and rushed to the restroom, but everything was fine, but my makeup would crumble and the air would become damp... The best thing to do is not show your clumsy tears.

A woman who can cry in front of others is cute, but a woman who can't cry is limited to quickly cooling her eyelids and fixing her makeup.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/21 15:58
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Tetsu

This is Tetsu, a male member.
I cried once too.
The moment the sex was over, she started crying and when I asked her what happened, she said that she couldn't control her emotions and cried while feeling good, while various painful scenes from the past ran through her head like a revolving lantern. wasWhen I was told that, all I could do was hug her.
It must be something that men can never experience.At least I haven't experienced it lol

  • Answer date: 2020/08/23 10:44

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